Introduction
Caring for a loved one with dementia brings a unique set of challenges. As our population ages, the prevalence of dementia increases, impacting not only seniors but also their dedicated caregivers. In this blog post, we’ll explore the experiences of individuals like Ms Jacqueline Teng and her father, Mr Teng Hock Bee, shedding light on the struggles and triumphs that come with caring for seniors with dementia.
Understanding Dementia: An Unpredictable Journey
Dementia, a condition causing gradual decline in brain function, affects one in 10 individuals aged 60 and above in Singapore. The journey is unpredictable, often stirring emotions of fear and sadness. Many caregivers find themselves facing the daunting task of providing support while grappling with their own emotional challenges.
The Struggles: A Daughter’s Story
Ms Teng noticed her father’s shift after hernia surgery, realising he was grappling with more than just physical recovery. Anxiety, forgetfulness, and a loss of financial acumen marked the onset of dementia. The struggles extended to managing daily activities, leading to impulsive spending on lottery tickets. Such challenges can be overwhelming for caregivers, triggering a sense of panic and helplessness.
Coping with the Unfamiliar: Dementia in the Community
The gap in the care pathway between diagnosis and formal care is evident. However, initiatives like the Meeting Centre support programme offer a ray of hope. These centres, inspired by models from the UK and the Netherlands, provide tailored activities for individuals with mild to moderate dementia. Such programs aim to address the emotional needs of seniors, offering a safe space for socialisation and cognitive stimulation.
Empathy and Understanding: A Vital Support System
Caregivers, like Ms Teng and Ms Ong, find solace in support programs. Regular group meetings provide a therapeutic outlet, allowing individuals to share experiences and emotions in a safe environment. For many, meeting others facing similar challenges enhances mental well-being. Such programs also offer caregivers valuable insights and practical tips to navigate the evolving landscape of dementia.
Overcoming Isolation: The Role of Social Organizations
Singapore, recognizing the urgency to address the growing needs of an ageing population, has introduced Meeting Centres. These centres, hosted by various social service agencies, bring together seniors and caregivers in a supportive environment. Initiatives like CareLibrary and Family of Wisdom offer structured activities for individuals with dementia. Though some sessions are chargeable, the benefits for both seniors and caregivers are immeasurable.
Conclusion: A Unified Journey
Caring for seniors with dementia is a shared journey, marked by both challenges and moments of joy. As Singapore continues to invest in innovative solutions, caregivers can find solace in community support. Organisations like Dementia Singapore play a pivotal role in ensuring that no caregiver walks this path alone. In unity, we discover the strength to navigate the complexities of dementia, fostering a compassionate society for our seniors and those who care for them.
List of Meeting Centres
MC@Onesimus Village
113 Ang Mo Kio Avenue 4, #01-343, Singapore 560113
Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10am-noon and 2-4pm
Contact Mr Tan Jun Wei on 6856-4612, Junwei.tan@dementia.org.sg or e-mail peggy.wong@sws.sg
MC@THK 645 AAC
Block 645 Ang Mo Kio Avenue 6, #01-4937, Singapore 560645
Saturdays, 9-11am
Contact Thye Hua Kwan AAC on 6554-7298 or aac.amk645@thkmc.org.sg
MC@Thomson Hills Drive
Salem Chapel, 1 Thomson Hills Drive, Singapore 574746
Fridays, 9.30-11.30am
E-mail Salem Welfare Services at peggy.wong@sws.sg
MC@Lions Befrienders
Block 366 Clementi Avenue 2, #01-527 Singapore 120366
Fridays, 2.30-4.30pm
Contact Lions Befrienders AAC on 6681-4025 or cla366@lb.org.sg
MC@AMKFSC ComNet 182
ComNet@182 Rivervale Crescent, #01-311, Singapore 540182
Mondays, 2.30-4.30pmContact AMKFSC ComNet@182 Rivervale Crescent on 6385-0260 or comnet@amkfsc.org.sg
At SG Assist, we are dedicated to supporting caregivers and your loved ones. From providing essential resources to connecting caregivers with professional care services, we are here for you every step of the way. Visit our websites at SG Assist and CareConnect, and our Caregiver Resource Centre, or sign up for our newsletter to stay updated on the latest developments and caregiver support initiatives. Together, we can make a difference in the lives of those we care for.
Story was adapted from The Straits Times, https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/health/meeting-centres-an-oasis-for-seniors-with-mild-to-moderate-dementia-and-their-caregivers
